Remember Valentine's parties in elementary school? Creative kids made valentines for every classmate. Others, like me, bought a box of kid's cards and then tried to match a card for each child. It wasn't that difficult, the girls got cards with puppies or kittens and the boys got ones with airplanes or Disney characters. In good years, you might even attach a lollypop. The point was to say, "I like you," without them thinking you like them too much.
Isn't it nice to know that God's love is much more mature! Scripture describes God's love with the Hebrew term hesed (steadfast love) and the Greek word agape (unconditional love). In fact, John says that "God is love" (I John 4:8). God loves us so much that we cannot even comprehend the depth of God's love. Still God seeks us out in hopes that we will accept and return God's love.
God doesn't love us to get something from us. When we understand how much God loves us, however, we are moved to return God's love by loving others. Biblical love isn't just a gushy emotion. It is an act of faith lived out in service to God and others. As Jesus said, "If you love me, you will keep my commandments" (John 14:21). Knowing God loves us gives us the security to love and serve others.
As you pick out Valentines for those you love, I hope you will remember that the greatest expression of love ever sent was Jesus Christ. In memorizing John 3:16 we are reminded that it is because of God's great love that he sent Jesus. And it is because of Jesus' great love for us that he gave his own life for our salvation. Even if you don't get a single valentine, God has already given you the greatest gift of love.
Trying to return God's love may make you feel like a child with a bunch of inadequate cards, but showing our love for God is not that difficult. This February you can demonstrate your love for God by being in God's presence (worship), seeking to understand God's way (Bible Study), and loving those God loves (ministry). It is my prayer this month that you are overwhelmed by God's love and respond by loving others as you have been loved.